Hello,
Negative action will not happen if you conquer the tempation of using negative words and nip any growth of negative thoughts.
But the basic problem with humans is that we are sometimes controlled by external factors that makes us do things that is against our nature and wish.
So, what do we do when tempted into negative action? How do we avoid negative action?
If you have failed in your effort with negative words and thoughts, the chances of your ability to resist negative action has already gone down to maybe 25%.
But you still have a chance. You can still curb the desire for negative action through a mechanism called retardation.
When negative thoughts dominate your thoughts, it gives momentum and acceleration to your action.
If even at this juncture you want to avoid negativity all you have to do is press on the brakes. Slow down the action. Let the action simmer, let friction take effect. Delay it as much as you can.
How to delay?
Move away from the scene.
If you are having an arguement just get out of the room, drink a glass of water and if you are brave enough just go and hug the other person.
It works. The retardation produced kills the momentum and brings the vehicle to a stop.
Try it and soon it will become a habit you can be proud of.
Best regards,
Manoj
Negative action will not happen if you conquer the tempation of using negative words and nip any growth of negative thoughts.
But the basic problem with humans is that we are sometimes controlled by external factors that makes us do things that is against our nature and wish.
So, what do we do when tempted into negative action? How do we avoid negative action?
If you have failed in your effort with negative words and thoughts, the chances of your ability to resist negative action has already gone down to maybe 25%.
But you still have a chance. You can still curb the desire for negative action through a mechanism called retardation.
When negative thoughts dominate your thoughts, it gives momentum and acceleration to your action.
If even at this juncture you want to avoid negativity all you have to do is press on the brakes. Slow down the action. Let the action simmer, let friction take effect. Delay it as much as you can.
How to delay?
Move away from the scene.
If you are having an arguement just get out of the room, drink a glass of water and if you are brave enough just go and hug the other person.
It works. The retardation produced kills the momentum and brings the vehicle to a stop.
Try it and soon it will become a habit you can be proud of.
Best regards,
Manoj
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